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to the bravest; at such a time; Love would inspire him。 That courage which; as Homer says; the god breathes into the souls of some heroes; Love of his own nature infuses into the lover。   Love will make men dare to die for their beloved…love alone; and women as well as men。 Of this; Alcestis; the daughter of Pelias; is a monument to all Hellas; for she was willing to lay down her life on behalf of her husband; when no one else would; although he had a father and mother; but the tenderness of her love so far exceeded theirs; that she made them seem to be strangers in blood to their own son; and in name only related to him; and so noble did this action of hers appear to the gods; as well as to men; that among the many who have done virtuously she is one of the very few to whom; in admiration of her noble action; they have granted the privilege of returning alive to earth; such exceeding honour is paid by the gods to the devotion and virtue of love。 But Orpheus; the son of Oeagrus; the harper; they sent empty away; and presented to him an apparition only of her whom he sought; but herself they would not give up; because he showed no spirit; he was only a harp…player; and did not…dare like Alcestis to die for love; but was contriving how he might enter hades alive; moreover; they afterwards caused him to suffer death at the hands of women; as the punishment of his cowardliness。 Very different was the reward of the true love of Achilles towards his lover Patroclus…his lover and not his love (the notion that Patroclus was the beloved one is a foolish error into which Aeschylus has fallen; for Achilles was surely the fairer of the two; fairer also than all the other heroes; and; as Homer informs us; he was still beardless; and younger far)。 And greatly as the gods honour the virtue of love; still the return of love on the part of the beloved to the lover is more admired and valued and rewarded by them; for the lover is more divine; because he is inspired by God。 Now Achilles was quite aware; for he had been told by his mother; that he might avoid death and return home; and live to a good old age; if he abstained from slaying Hector。 Nevertheless he gave his life to revenge his friend; and dared to die; not only in his defence; but after he was dead Wherefore the gods honoured him even above Alcestis; and sent him to the Islands of the Blest。 These are my reasons for affirming that Love is the eldest and noblest and mightiest of the gods; and the chiefest author and giver of virtue in life; and of happiness after death。   This; or something like this; was the speech of Phaedrus; and some other speeches followed which Aristodemus did not remember; the next which he repeated was that of Pausanias。 Phaedrus; he said; the argument has not been set before us; I think; quite in the right form;…we should not be called upon to praise Love in such an indiscriminate manner。 If there were only one Love; then what you said would be well enough; but since there are more Loves than one;…should have begun by determining which of them was to be the theme of our praises。 I will amend this defect; and first of all I would tell you which Love is deserving of praise; and then try to hymn the praiseworthy one in a manner worthy of him。 For we all know that Love is inseparable from Aphrodite; and if there were only one Aphrodite there would be only one Love; but as there are two goddesses there must be two Loves。   And am I not right in asserting that there are two goddesses? The elder one; having no mother; who is called the heavenly Aphrodite…she is the daughter of Uranus; the younger; who is the daughter of Zeus and Dione…her we call common; and the Love who is her fellow…worker is rightly named common; as the other love is called heavenly。 All the gods ought to have praise given to them; but not without distinction of their natures; and therefore I must try to distinguish the characters of the two Loves。 Now actions vary according to the manner of their performance。 Take; for example; that which we are now doing; drinking; singing and talking these actions are not in themselves either good or evil; but they turn out in this or that way according to the mode of performing them; and when well done they are good; and when wrongly done they are evil; and in like manner not every love; but only that which has a noble purpose; is noble and worthy of praise。 The Love who is the offspring of the common Aphrodite is essentially common; and has no discrimination; being such as the meaner sort of men feel; and is apt to be of women as well as of youths; and is of the body rather than of the soul…the most foolish beings are the objects of this love which desires only to gain an end; but never thinks of accomplishing the end nobly; and therefore does good and evil quite indiscriminately。 The goddess who is his mother is far younger than the other; and she was born of the union of the male and female; and partakes of both。   But the offspring of the heavenly Aphrodite is derived from a mother in whose birth the female has no part;…she is from the male only; this is that love which is of youths; and the goddess being older; there is nothing of wantonness in her。 Those who are inspired by this love turn to the male; and delight in him who is the more valiant and intelligent nature; any one may recognise the pure enthusiasts in the very character of their attachments。 For they love not boys; but intelligent; beings whose reason is beginning to be developed; much about the time at which their beards begin to grow。 And in choosing young men to be their companions; they mean to be faithful to them; and pass their whole life in company with them; not to take them in their inexperience; and deceive them; and play the fool with them; or run away from one to another of them。 But the love of young boys should be forbidden by law; because their future is uncertain; they may turn out good or bad; either in body or soul; and much noble enthusiasm may be thrown away upon them; in this matter the good are a law to themselves; and the coarser sort of lovers ought to be restrained by force; as we restrain or attempt to restrain them from fixing their affections on women of free birth。 These are the persons who bring a reproach on love; and some have been led to deny the lawfulness of such attachments because they see the impropriety and evil of them; for surely nothing that is decorously and lawfully done can justly be censured。   Now here and in Lacedaemon the rules about love are perplexing; but in most cities they are simple and easily intelligible; in Elis and Boeotia; and in countries having no gifts of eloquence; they are very straightforward; the law is simply in favour of these connexions; and no one; whether young or old; has anything to say to their discredit; the reason being; as I suppose; that they are men of few words in those parts; and therefore the lovers do not like the trouble of pleading their suit。 In Ionia and other places; and generally in countries which are subject to the barbarians; the custom is held to be dishonourable; loves of youths share the evil repute in which philosophy and gymnastics are held because they are inimical to tyranny; for the interests of rulers require that their subjects should be poor in spirit and that there should be no strong bond of friendship or society among them; which love; above all other motives; is likely to inspire; as our Athenian tyrants…learned by experience; for the love of Aristogeiton and the constancy of Harmodius had strength which undid their power。 And; therefore; the ill…repute into which these attachments have fallen is to be ascribed to the evil condition of those who make them to be ill…reputed; that is to say; to the self…seeking of the governors and the cowardice of the governed; on the other hand; the indiscriminate honour which is given to them in some countries is attributable to the laziness of those who hold this opinion of them。 In our own country a far better principle prevails; but; as I was saying; the explanation of it is rather perplexing。 For; observe that open loves are held to be more honourable than secret ones; and that the love of the noblest and highest; even if their persons are less beautiful t
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